Saying “Yes” to the Dress

January 28, 2017 was just one of those days I don’t think you can EVER forget.
On an UNEXPECTED Saturday, 15 months before I would say “I do” to Shawn, my mom, brother (Man of Honor), and I said “YES” to the wedding dress of my dreams.

In our lifetime, we have shopped in more stores than we could ever count, for many different things, and had some of the best times of our lives doing so, but January 28th was one of my favorite shopping days ever and now that the wedding is over, I wanted to share with you all some behind the scene pictures of the day as well as my experience with Winnie Couture in Charlotte, NC.

February 7-13, we had plans to fly to New York City to visit a few bridal boutiques there, as it was always my dream to get engaged in NYC AND say “Yes” to the dress there.  At the time, I was being casted to be on the show and was in back and forth talks with them arranging our schedules etc.  On one of our last conversations, their director said to “be sure to come with what in mind we were looking for, we only had an hour.”  I started panicking, I was like HOW IN THE WORLD CAN I FIT MY DREAM APPOINTMENT INTO ONE HOUR?! I never even thought I would ever wear a  gown much less narrow it down so quickly.

Mom had suggested going to a couple of stores before hand to just try some dresses on. So that is exactly what I did.  I made an appointment to visit Winnie Couture in Charlotte because we were going to be at the lake house that weekend and it would be easy for us to go and just try dresses on.

My appointment was at 11 AM and Shawn and I were at our lake home on Lake Norman, which is about a 45 minute drive to Winnie Couture.  The morning I was supposed to be there, WE HAD NO RUNNING WATER AT THE LAKE and I literally had to BRUSH MY TEETH IN THE TARGET BATHROOM, NO JOKE y’all! My hair was a freaking wreck, my outfit was UGH, I started my period that morning, I couldn’t wash my face, and I was running late.  Brennan and mom were coming from Concord, NC so of course they beat me and I rolled in on two wheels, lol!

Walking in, we were greeted by Gina and she is literally a living, breathing doll.  Right away, we hit it off and I completely trusted her.  I was also very upfront with her that we were just looking and I had NO plans to say “yes” today, as we already had booked our trip to NYC and were heading up there in just a few weeks.  She totally understood, and still let me choose any gown that I wanted to try on.

As we walked on into their showroom, I was mesmerized by the beauty of not only the gowns, but the architecture of the store.  Talk about major store SWOON!

I tried on probably 4-5 gowns that I thought I would like on my body and just really wasn’t feeling any of them.  I tried on the 6th gown, which was very similar to the one I chose, and I fell in love with it.  The way it flower was just gorgeous and I loved the shape that it gave me.  I really can’t go on to any more details about it honestly because as soon as I tried on the 7th gown, I had forgotten about any other dress I tried on.  It was beautiful, it was elegant, it was GRAND, it was my dress, even tho I DID NOT want to say “YES,” hehe.  My mom and my brother looked at me I swear as if I was the most beautiful girl in the entire world and just kept telling me how WOW it was.  I had kept going back and forth between it and the 6th dress, secretly I loved the 6th one, but EVERYONE in Winnie Couture including my mom and brother LOVED the last dress I tried on.  Once we started adding things I wanted, like the sleeves, belt, veil, earrings, etc.  I began to fall even more in love.

AH, I was so indecisive and truthfully I still had my heart set on NYC.  Everyone kept saying “Which dress would Shawn like more?” And all I could say was, “He wouldn’t care if I walked down the aisle in a brown paper sack….” hehe, and that is true.

After trying the dress on ONE more time, Gina said “Whitney, is this your dress?” I immediately looked at my mom, and then looked at my brother and we all started balling crying (I’m sitting here crying just reliving this moment).  I knew then, that was my dress.  That was the dress I would walk down the aisle in to marry the love of my life in.  It was also an even more special moment for us as my Grandmother, my moms mom, her name was Winnie. It was like she too was there with us.

 

 

 

I had to wait about 5-6 months to go back and see the dress.  In the meantime, I would always think, oh my gosh did I choose the right dress.  I wasn’t 100% confident in my dress and would often go back looking at the videos and photos of the dress I loved, and the dress I chose. Later that day we would go on to sign our contract to get married at Trump National on April 28, 2018.  Exactly 15 months later.

And the March rolled around, and we found out I was pregnant.  Talk about MAJOR GULP.  HOW IN THE WORLD AM I GOING TO GET IN THE DRESS WE ARE HAVING CUSTOM MADE TO FIT MY BODY WHEN I WAS IN THE BEST SHAPE OF MY LIFE?! Oh my gosh, I was FREAKING OUT.

June rolled around and I got a phone call from Gina saying that my dress was in.  GULP, “okay, awesome! I will be there to pick it up this weekend?!”  On June 13th, nervously I walked into Winnie Couture only to see the dress I loved on a mannequin.  She walked me back to my changing room to try on MY dress and GUESS WHAT, IT FIT, hehe, and IT WAS THE MOST GORGEOUS GOWN I HAD EVER SEEN IN MY LIFE.  I cannot believe I ever doubted myself, my mom, or my brother, lol. 

I can never express my sincere gratitude to Winnie Couture, Gina, and their WONDERFUL staff for all of their help.  Since we were getting married in North Carolina, I would often call them for recommendations or advice, and their customer service was TOP NOTCH! In fact, they recommend Bella Bridesmaids, where we got our bridesmaid dresses and Paper Twist, where our invitations came from.

If you live near a Winnie Couture, shoot even if you have to travel (it is TOTALLY worth it), I would say YES a million times to go and see them! In my opinion, they are the BEST in the business and they work with you 100% on making YOUR dream dress come to reality! ps. Tell them Whitney sent you!!!

*This post is and was not sponsored in any way.  All thoughts and recommendations are mine.

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#NSALE Picks

My goodness what a SALE, yall! I swear I keep going back and getting more! The prices are just tooooo good and it is things you can wear ALL FALL AND WINTER (and some now) !

I’m linking below the things I bought yesterday morning! I will do a try on session when they come in and keep you all updated if I buy anything else!

Tops:

Bottoms:

Rompers, Dresses, & Jumpsuits:

Accessories:

Handbags:

Activewear:

Shoes:

Athletic Shoes:

For Shawn

For Bo

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My Bridal Portraits

Photography by Pasha Belman Photography | Hair & Make Up by Heather Carter
My wedding gown, belt, and veil are all custom designs from Winnie Couture
Earrings: The Foxy Lady | Shoes: Christian Louboutin

Oh my gosh y’all, I am so sorry I am JUST getting around to sharing my Bridal Portraits with you all! I swear time flies when you’re single, then you swear times flies when you’re married, and throw a baby in there with all of that and TIME REALLY FLIES! I’m going to apologize now because I said in my head “ok Whitney, only choose a couple…” and about 50 in, I said “ok Whitney, THAT IS ENOUGH!” He he! Now y’all can see what it was SO dang hard to only CHOOSE one bridal portrait to display at our wedding so I think we had like 4-5, oops, he he!

The day we shot my bridal portraits, I swear it was like a dream.  The weather was perfect, the home was perfect, and everything kind of just came together.

We were scheduled to have these taken on a plantation, but the more I thought about it, the more the plantation idea just didn’t did AW me.  My brother suggested we call one of our family friends and see if she was in town and we could use their BEAUTIFUL home for portraits.  She was SO welcoming and being able to have my photos done there was an absolute DREAM!

I am BEYOND thankful for Pasha Belman and that he was SO accommodating! He had never shot at this location before and literally had a few hours to change everything and head to Myrtle Beach to do our session (instead of closer to Georgetown, SC).  We had originally planned to do these last summer, but when I found out we were pregnant with Bo in March of last year, Pasha was literally one of the first to know, we had to RESCHEDULE for just WEEKS before the wedding!  Within a few days, I had the most gorgeous photos waiting on me!

After I received the photos, I kept asking Shawn “want to see, want to see…” and he continuously said “NO WHITNEY!” He he.  I wouldn’t have let him, but it was SO hard not to show him, OR YOU ALL right when I had gotten them back!

Anyways, I hope you all enjoyed looking at these bridal portraits and hopefully they have inspired yours?!  I love, love, love looking at bridals + wedding photos so if you’re getting married or recently married, TAG ME! I want to see!!

Please stay tuned for more gorgeous photos of our wedding day coming soon!

A very special thank you to Gary and Crystal Langston for letting us use your magnificent home.  It is truly ONE OF A KIND, as are you Crystal, XOXO!

PS. BRIDES, I HIGHLY RECOMMEND USING ZOLA FOR YOUR WEDDING REGISTRY as well as your wedding website (it’s FREE)!  I found out about it AFTER our wedding by mutual friends who have gotten or are getting married soon and IT IS SO much cooler AND easier than normal registries plus you can register for experiences (aka travel and vacation), luggage, furniture, home decor, kitchen, cash, um, did I mention EXPERIENCES?! The best part is that whatever’s left over your guests didn’t purchase, YOU GET 20% OFF!  What I believe makes Zola so nice, is your guests literally can go to ONE place for ALL your wedding details.  You can give your guests details about events and times, display a map, share your engagement photos, your guests can RSVP ONLINE, you can display a FAQ page for your guests, and it is super simple to use.  I recently visited one of my best friends wedding website thru Zola and I was able to RSVP, find out details about their Welcome Party, find out if babies are welcome, AND purchase their wedding gift and have shipped to their house! As a new mom and business woman, i am THANKFUL for Zola!   I’m telling you, IT IS THE ONLY WAY TO REGISTER! Visit this link for more details!

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What is the Nordstrom Sale?

If you are like me, until last year when I saw 1,082,926 bloggers posting about the #NSALE, aka the Nordstrom Anniversary Sale, I had NOOO idea what it was.  I had never shopped it, never even seen it advertised, but I had a credit card, so I ended up shopping and getting some of my FAVORITE pieces that I wear ALL the time.

I wanted to take the time out and let you all know about the #NSALE aka the biggest and best sale of the year for our favorite designer pieces.  If you already know what it is, you can keep reading just to see when it is and what all I am buying!

Basically, for only a couple weeks, Nordstrom offers shoppers brand new arrivals (both summer and fall included) at eye-popping sale prices. When the 25 day sale window closes, all items shoot back up to original prices.  You can get a sneak peak of the sale by checking out the Nordstrom Anniversary Catalog.

When is it? 
July 11th-August 5th
July 11th
The sale opens up to Nordstrom Level 4 cardholders only.  For those of you that are level 4, YOU GO GIRL!!! I am only level 3, sooooo I have to wait a day!

July 12th
The “Early Access” Sale for ALL Nordstrom Cardholders.  Us cardholders are able to shop the entire sale before it opens up to the public.  You better get your cart ready and CHECK OUT FAST!

July 20th
The sale is open to the public, meaning ANYONE can shop the sale, even if you do not have a Nordstrom card, you can NOW SHOP!

August 5th
This is the LAST DAY of the sale. Starting tomorrow, everything will go back to it’s original, full price.

If you do not have a Nordstrom card and you would like to apply for one, click here.  I can promise you it is TOTALLY worth it. Me and my brother both have one and it comes in sooo handy.  Oh, and you can have a Debit OR Credit card.

I am so excited for this sale and excited to shop with and for you and keep y’all updated on whats new, low on inventory, things I am buying/want to buy/things I bought and I don’t like.

THANKS SO MUCH FOR THOSE OF YOU THAT PURCHASE THROUGH MY LINKS, PLEASE SHARE THIS POST WITH FAMILY AND FRIENDS SO EVERYONE YOU KNOW CAN BE THE BEST PREPARED FOR THE SALE! 
Also stay tuned for a $1,200 NORDSTROM GIFT CARD SALE!

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It’s OK To Still Set Goals

By now, you have probably noticed a change in my Instagram.  Some of you have made comments on how much you like it, you love the photo edits (via Lightroom), and you’re giving me the BEST feedback.

Today, I wanted to talk to you all about moms being a new mom, yet still having goals.

My boutique is busier than ever, I miss working in the store, but I love my try on sessions with you all, and I LOVE putting outfits together from my favorite places to shop and sharing them with you all. However, I still find myself wanting more.

I find myself more often than not seeing comments on my photos about “how do you get ready now that you are a mom,” ” don’t you feel bad for working and leaving Bo,” “how do you have time for all that you do,” “is your boutique all you want to do with life,” and so on…

I would say one of the most important things about being Bo’s mom, is staying true to who I am, following through with my goals, my hopes, and my dreams.  Of course that makes me a little selfish, but how can I inspire and push him to be and do his very best and to dream big when I gave up on mine?  Now, this in NO way is belittling ANY mom who hasn’t given up on her goals and dreams, but she has taken a few steps back from them.  This is to light a fire in those of you who are DYING to follow YOUR dreams, to make those goals a reality but need to be told IT IS OK.

Of course it takes time away from our babies, BUT for me, I believe I am a better mom for seeing my goals and dreams come to light.  He inspires me.  He has lit an even bigger fire in me then I had before.

So, today I wanted to write down 5 (HONEST) goals I want to complete by the end of 2018 in hopes you would do the same.  Head back to my Instagram and tell me at least one goal you want to complete by January 1 of 2019 (lets leave our babies out of this one, we ALL know we are DOING THE BEST WE CAN AND WE ARE THE BEST MAMA TO THESE LITTLE ANGELS).  If getting ready 2/7 days a week is a goal for you, TELL ME, if starting that clothing boutique is a dream of yours, LETS CHAT ABOUT IT.  If a date night each week with you husband is a goal, LETS TALK ABOUT WHAT YOU ARE GONNA WEAR! Lets do it girl!!!

  1. Reach and inspire 100K+ via Instagram providing you with the most positive, real, and best content I can.
  2. Be a better, nicer wife to my husband-8 months of sleepless nights has been rough
  3. Sponsored vacation, or two (HI SOUTHWEST AIR, hehe)
  4. Attend FALL NYFW
  5. Have my favorite bloggers wearing TRT on their blog (HI OLIVIA RINK)

We have 182 days after today to complete our goals! Lets wake up tomorrow and KICK A$$!
I am SO looking forward to reading and chatting with you about yours! I will try to often check in and keep you motivated because YOU motivate me!!

all outfit details can be found here

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