It’s OK To Still Set Goals

By now, you have probably noticed a change in my Instagram.  Some of you have made comments on how much you like it, you love the photo edits (via Lightroom), and you’re giving me the BEST feedback.

Today, I wanted to talk to you all about moms being a new mom, yet still having goals.

My boutique is busier than ever, I miss working in the store, but I love my try on sessions with you all, and I LOVE putting outfits together from my favorite places to shop and sharing them with you all. However, I still find myself wanting more.

I find myself more often than not seeing comments on my photos about “how do you get ready now that you are a mom,” ” don’t you feel bad for working and leaving Bo,” “how do you have time for all that you do,” “is your boutique all you want to do with life,” and so on…

I would say one of the most important things about being Bo’s mom, is staying true to who I am, following through with my goals, my hopes, and my dreams.  Of course that makes me a little selfish, but how can I inspire and push him to be and do his very best and to dream big when I gave up on mine?  Now, this in NO way is belittling ANY mom who hasn’t given up on her goals and dreams, but she has taken a few steps back from them.  This is to light a fire in those of you who are DYING to follow YOUR dreams, to make those goals a reality but need to be told IT IS OK.

Of course it takes time away from our babies, BUT for me, I believe I am a better mom for seeing my goals and dreams come to light.  He inspires me.  He has lit an even bigger fire in me then I had before.

So, today I wanted to write down 5 (HONEST) goals I want to complete by the end of 2018 in hopes you would do the same.  Head back to my Instagram and tell me at least one goal you want to complete by January 1 of 2019 (lets leave our babies out of this one, we ALL know we are DOING THE BEST WE CAN AND WE ARE THE BEST MAMA TO THESE LITTLE ANGELS).  If getting ready 2/7 days a week is a goal for you, TELL ME, if starting that clothing boutique is a dream of yours, LETS CHAT ABOUT IT.  If a date night each week with you husband is a goal, LETS TALK ABOUT WHAT YOU ARE GONNA WEAR! Lets do it girl!!!

  1. Reach and inspire 100K+ via Instagram providing you with the most positive, real, and best content I can.
  2. Be a better, nicer wife to my husband-8 months of sleepless nights has been rough
  3. Sponsored vacation, or two (HI SOUTHWEST AIR, hehe)
  4. Attend FALL NYFW
  5. Have my favorite bloggers wearing TRT on their blog (HI OLIVIA RINK)

We have 182 days after today to complete our goals! Lets wake up tomorrow and KICK A$$!
I am SO looking forward to reading and chatting with you about yours! I will try to often check in and keep you motivated because YOU motivate me!!

all outfit details can be found here

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Guest Post: Rachel Wells Photography

I hope everyone had a wonderful Mother’s Day (last week, I know!). My son is still telling me ‘Happy Mother’s Day’ and it’s the sweetest!
I am so excited to share a couple of tips on what to wear for any type of motherhood session! I’ve been there, and I know how hard it is to decide on the perfect outfits! 
When you’re choosing your colors, I think a neutral, organic color palette photographs so well. It really allows you and your family shine without any distraction. 
I always suggest staying away from brighter colors in the red & orange range. They don’t photograph as well! 
Also, keep in mind that your photos will viewed and displayed for years, so it’s best to choose classic attire that you will enjoy later as well. 
Any prints you choose should be minimal and soft. Whitney’s floral print was perfect and photographed beautifully! 
Flowy dresses are ALWAYS a great choice and add such beautiful movement.
If you’re feeling like your neutral color palette needs something a bit extra, think about adding some texture! Lace and knits are a perfect addition to add some interest. 
Rachel Wells
Congratulations to Brianne George @scrubsandsparkles on winning our contest!
Please email Whitney at whitneynrife@gmail.com for details!
Thanks to everyone for entering our contest! Stay tuned for more to come un the future.

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Top: Greylin | Shorts: Greylin | Heels: Sam Edelman | Earrings: The Retail Therapist |
Ahhh, the NEW ARRIVALS that The Retail Therapist has right now are amazing,
in-fact, some of my FAVORITE pieces that I have ordered thus far!  These Greylin
pieces are so cute and are perfect for a night out on the town with your best girl friends
or for date night with your sweetheart.  The colors are sold bold and beautiful and
are great for any skin complexion or hair color! I personally LOVE this top because it is
long enough to wear with skinnies or you can tuck into these ADORABLE tweed shorts!
I hope everyone had a wonderful weekend and treat yourself to a little retail therapy.
Special Thanks to India Thomas (Dress, Earrings, Handbag) and for the
gorgeous photography by: Casaundra Sheppard Photography
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