June Favorites

3 blog posts this week?! WOO-HOO!!! I know we are halfway thru JULY, but I wanted to share with you all some outfits I wore in June that are still in stock and perfect for summer!

Dress (on sale) c/o The Retail Therapist | Earrings (love these too)

Dress (on sale) c/o Gallery Boutique | Sunglasses | Earrings | Purse | Shoes

Dress | Sunglasses | Earrings | Boots c/o Rivertrail Mercantile

Top | Shorts (50% off) | Glasses (on sale) | Scarf c/o The Retail Therapist | Earrings | Shoes

Bathing Suit | Straw Bag | Earrings c/o The Retail Therapist | Sunglasses

Products c/o Tula | Use code WHITRIFE for 20% off

Shorts

Sweater c/o Gallery Boutique | Shorts | Hat c/o Shawn’s Closet (similar) | Shoes

Dress (also available here) | Sunglasses

Romper (love these pieces too) | Earrings | Lipstick | Lipgloss

Romper c/o Gallery Boutique (love this too) | Earrings c/o Gallery Boutique (love these)

Romper c/o Gallery Boutique | Purse | Heels (old-similar linked here) | Earrings | Sunglasses

Dress (similar styles) | Wedges | Hat | Straw Bag | Earrings

Bathing Suit Top | Bottoms | Sunglasses | Sarong c/o The Retail Therapist | Shoes

Dress (on sale) | Purse (on sale) | Wedges | Earrings c/o Gallery Boutique | Sunglasses

Dress c/o Gallery Boutique | Shoes | Earrings | Pineapple Purse

Silver Sandals | Espadrilles | Slides

Can you all believe it is already June?! I swear people say time flies but I do not think you truly understand until you have babies, and time REALLY does fly!

I wore some of my favorite outfits in June and I hope you all loved them as much as I did! Let me know which is your favorite that way I know what styles you all are liking and what I should be looking for for y’all!

Happy WEDNESDAY!!!

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Saying “Yes” to the Dress

January 28, 2017 was just one of those days I don’t think you can EVER forget.
On an UNEXPECTED Saturday, 15 months before I would say “I do” to Shawn, my mom, brother (Man of Honor), and I said “YES” to the wedding dress of my dreams.

In our lifetime, we have shopped in more stores than we could ever count, for many different things, and had some of the best times of our lives doing so, but January 28th was one of my favorite shopping days ever and now that the wedding is over, I wanted to share with you all some behind the scene pictures of the day as well as my experience with Winnie Couture in Charlotte, NC.

February 7-13, we had plans to fly to New York City to visit a few bridal boutiques there, as it was always my dream to get engaged in NYC AND say “Yes” to the dress there.  At the time, I was being casted to be on the show and was in back and forth talks with them arranging our schedules etc.  On one of our last conversations, their director said to “be sure to come with what in mind we were looking for, we only had an hour.”  I started panicking, I was like HOW IN THE WORLD CAN I FIT MY DREAM APPOINTMENT INTO ONE HOUR?! I never even thought I would ever wear a  gown much less narrow it down so quickly.

Mom had suggested going to a couple of stores before hand to just try some dresses on. So that is exactly what I did.  I made an appointment to visit Winnie Couture in Charlotte because we were going to be at the lake house that weekend and it would be easy for us to go and just try dresses on.

My appointment was at 11 AM and Shawn and I were at our lake home on Lake Norman, which is about a 45 minute drive to Winnie Couture.  The morning I was supposed to be there, WE HAD NO RUNNING WATER AT THE LAKE and I literally had to BRUSH MY TEETH IN THE TARGET BATHROOM, NO JOKE y’all! My hair was a freaking wreck, my outfit was UGH, I started my period that morning, I couldn’t wash my face, and I was running late.  Brennan and mom were coming from Concord, NC so of course they beat me and I rolled in on two wheels, lol!

Walking in, we were greeted by Gina and she is literally a living, breathing doll.  Right away, we hit it off and I completely trusted her.  I was also very upfront with her that we were just looking and I had NO plans to say “yes” today, as we already had booked our trip to NYC and were heading up there in just a few weeks.  She totally understood, and still let me choose any gown that I wanted to try on.

As we walked on into their showroom, I was mesmerized by the beauty of not only the gowns, but the architecture of the store.  Talk about major store SWOON!

I tried on probably 4-5 gowns that I thought I would like on my body and just really wasn’t feeling any of them.  I tried on the 6th gown, which was very similar to the one I chose, and I fell in love with it.  The way it flower was just gorgeous and I loved the shape that it gave me.  I really can’t go on to any more details about it honestly because as soon as I tried on the 7th gown, I had forgotten about any other dress I tried on.  It was beautiful, it was elegant, it was GRAND, it was my dress, even tho I DID NOT want to say “YES,” hehe.  My mom and my brother looked at me I swear as if I was the most beautiful girl in the entire world and just kept telling me how WOW it was.  I had kept going back and forth between it and the 6th dress, secretly I loved the 6th one, but EVERYONE in Winnie Couture including my mom and brother LOVED the last dress I tried on.  Once we started adding things I wanted, like the sleeves, belt, veil, earrings, etc.  I began to fall even more in love.

AH, I was so indecisive and truthfully I still had my heart set on NYC.  Everyone kept saying “Which dress would Shawn like more?” And all I could say was, “He wouldn’t care if I walked down the aisle in a brown paper sack….” hehe, and that is true.

After trying the dress on ONE more time, Gina said “Whitney, is this your dress?” I immediately looked at my mom, and then looked at my brother and we all started balling crying (I’m sitting here crying just reliving this moment).  I knew then, that was my dress.  That was the dress I would walk down the aisle in to marry the love of my life in.  It was also an even more special moment for us as my Grandmother, my moms mom, her name was Winnie. It was like she too was there with us.

 

 

 

I had to wait about 5-6 months to go back and see the dress.  In the meantime, I would always think, oh my gosh did I choose the right dress.  I wasn’t 100% confident in my dress and would often go back looking at the videos and photos of the dress I loved, and the dress I chose. Later that day we would go on to sign our contract to get married at Trump National on April 28, 2018.  Exactly 15 months later.

And the March rolled around, and we found out I was pregnant.  Talk about MAJOR GULP.  HOW IN THE WORLD AM I GOING TO GET IN THE DRESS WE ARE HAVING CUSTOM MADE TO FIT MY BODY WHEN I WAS IN THE BEST SHAPE OF MY LIFE?! Oh my gosh, I was FREAKING OUT.

June rolled around and I got a phone call from Gina saying that my dress was in.  GULP, “okay, awesome! I will be there to pick it up this weekend?!”  On June 13th, nervously I walked into Winnie Couture only to see the dress I loved on a mannequin.  She walked me back to my changing room to try on MY dress and GUESS WHAT, IT FIT, hehe, and IT WAS THE MOST GORGEOUS GOWN I HAD EVER SEEN IN MY LIFE.  I cannot believe I ever doubted myself, my mom, or my brother, lol. 

I can never express my sincere gratitude to Winnie Couture, Gina, and their WONDERFUL staff for all of their help.  Since we were getting married in North Carolina, I would often call them for recommendations or advice, and their customer service was TOP NOTCH! In fact, they recommend Bella Bridesmaids, where we got our bridesmaid dresses and Paper Twist, where our invitations came from.

If you live near a Winnie Couture, shoot even if you have to travel (it is TOTALLY worth it), I would say YES a million times to go and see them! In my opinion, they are the BEST in the business and they work with you 100% on making YOUR dream dress come to reality! ps. Tell them Whitney sent you!!!

*This post is and was not sponsored in any way.  All thoughts and recommendations are mine.

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My Summer Playlist

bathing suit linked here

“And it went like this, yeah, Oops I got ninety-nine problems singing bye, bye, bye, Hold up, if you wanna go and take a ride with me, Better hit me baby one more time, Paint a picture for you and me of the days when we were young singing at the top of both our lungs…” 2002 by Anne Marie

I don’t know about y’all, but I swear I can’t do anything without listening to music.  Wake up, music.  Shower, music.  Getting ready, music. Riding in the car, music. Working, music. Getting Bo to sleep, music, hehe, ok you get it!  I wanted to share with y’all my current playlist! There are some good songs out right now and I swear motivation is just flying out of my body listening to them!

Anyways, I hope y’all take a listen and share with me some of your favorite songs out right now!

  1. 2002 by Anne Marie (ps. the lyrics from up top are from this song and I LOVE IT! I listen to it every morning when getting ready!)
  2. Hooked by Dylan Scott
  3. Summer On You by PRETTYMUCH (such a good summer jam!)
  4. 11:11 by Tyler Rich
  5. Tequila by Dan & Shay (My Side of the Fence is a good one too!)
  6. I Got Away With You by Luke Combs
  7. Day Drunk by Morgan Evans
  8. Father Father by Cole Redding
  9. Arms Open by The Script
  10. I Like It by Cardi B, Bad Bunny, and J Balvin
  11. 1950 by King Princess
  12. Church Clothes by Kalleigh Bennen (Listen to Happy Birthday too)
  13. IDGAF by Dua Lipa
  14. Kings & Queens by Mat Kearney
  15. Girls Like You by Maroon 5
  16. Yada Yada Yada by Brandon Lay
  17. Downtown’s Dead by Sam Hunt
  18. Happier by Ed Sheeran
  19. Drunk Me by Mitchell Tenpenny
  20. Good Old Days by Macklemore
  21. Shotgun by George Ezra
  22. Simple by Florida Georgia Line
  23. Drunk Girl by Chris Janson
  24. Sunrise, Sunburn, Sunset by Luke Bryan
  25. I Wanna Know by NOTD

Take a listen to some of these songs, I promise, THEY’RE SO GOOD, hehe!
Head to my Instagram and let me know what’s on your playlist!

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It’s OK To Still Set Goals

By now, you have probably noticed a change in my Instagram.  Some of you have made comments on how much you like it, you love the photo edits (via Lightroom), and you’re giving me the BEST feedback.

Today, I wanted to talk to you all about moms being a new mom, yet still having goals.

My boutique is busier than ever, I miss working in the store, but I love my try on sessions with you all, and I LOVE putting outfits together from my favorite places to shop and sharing them with you all. However, I still find myself wanting more.

I find myself more often than not seeing comments on my photos about “how do you get ready now that you are a mom,” ” don’t you feel bad for working and leaving Bo,” “how do you have time for all that you do,” “is your boutique all you want to do with life,” and so on…

I would say one of the most important things about being Bo’s mom, is staying true to who I am, following through with my goals, my hopes, and my dreams.  Of course that makes me a little selfish, but how can I inspire and push him to be and do his very best and to dream big when I gave up on mine?  Now, this in NO way is belittling ANY mom who hasn’t given up on her goals and dreams, but she has taken a few steps back from them.  This is to light a fire in those of you who are DYING to follow YOUR dreams, to make those goals a reality but need to be told IT IS OK.

Of course it takes time away from our babies, BUT for me, I believe I am a better mom for seeing my goals and dreams come to light.  He inspires me.  He has lit an even bigger fire in me then I had before.

So, today I wanted to write down 5 (HONEST) goals I want to complete by the end of 2018 in hopes you would do the same.  Head back to my Instagram and tell me at least one goal you want to complete by January 1 of 2019 (lets leave our babies out of this one, we ALL know we are DOING THE BEST WE CAN AND WE ARE THE BEST MAMA TO THESE LITTLE ANGELS).  If getting ready 2/7 days a week is a goal for you, TELL ME, if starting that clothing boutique is a dream of yours, LETS CHAT ABOUT IT.  If a date night each week with you husband is a goal, LETS TALK ABOUT WHAT YOU ARE GONNA WEAR! Lets do it girl!!!

  1. Reach and inspire 100K+ via Instagram providing you with the most positive, real, and best content I can.
  2. Be a better, nicer wife to my husband-8 months of sleepless nights has been rough
  3. Sponsored vacation, or two (HI SOUTHWEST AIR, hehe)
  4. Attend FALL NYFW
  5. Have my favorite bloggers wearing TRT on their blog (HI OLIVIA RINK)

We have 182 days after today to complete our goals! Lets wake up tomorrow and KICK A$$!
I am SO looking forward to reading and chatting with you about yours! I will try to often check in and keep you motivated because YOU motivate me!!

all outfit details can be found here

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Guest Post: Rachel Wells Photography

I hope everyone had a wonderful Mother’s Day (last week, I know!). My son is still telling me ‘Happy Mother’s Day’ and it’s the sweetest!
I am so excited to share a couple of tips on what to wear for any type of motherhood session! I’ve been there, and I know how hard it is to decide on the perfect outfits! 
When you’re choosing your colors, I think a neutral, organic color palette photographs so well. It really allows you and your family shine without any distraction. 
I always suggest staying away from brighter colors in the red & orange range. They don’t photograph as well! 
Also, keep in mind that your photos will viewed and displayed for years, so it’s best to choose classic attire that you will enjoy later as well. 
Any prints you choose should be minimal and soft. Whitney’s floral print was perfect and photographed beautifully! 
Flowy dresses are ALWAYS a great choice and add such beautiful movement.
If you’re feeling like your neutral color palette needs something a bit extra, think about adding some texture! Lace and knits are a perfect addition to add some interest. 
Rachel Wells
Congratulations to Brianne George @scrubsandsparkles on winning our contest!
Please email Whitney at whitneynrife@gmail.com for details!
Thanks to everyone for entering our contest! Stay tuned for more to come un the future.

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