“When I saw you I fell in love, and you smiled because you knew.” -William Shakespeare
First off to my Fiancé,
Thank you for making me the happiest I have ever been, and happier than I ever dreamed I could be.
I never dreamed that I would find someone who challenged me to see the world in the way you do; a man who makes me laugh and love with abandon. I didn’t believe that I could find a man who would remind me every single day to dream bigger, to work harder, and to open my heart to the possibilities of this beautiful life. I never realized that I could love anyone as much as I love you.
Shawn, you are the reason that I fight so incredibly hard to be the best person that I can be. You have breathed life and inspiration into this little piece of the universe, my world, and have made me even prouder of the woman I am today, because I am so loved by the incredible man you are. I promise to inspire you the way you inspire me, to lift you up when you falter, to always make weird squirrel noises, and forever eat Athens Super Subs with you, as long as you will eat Jimmy-Z Hibachi with me.
I promise to be your best friend, forever girlfriend, faithful wife, and the most amazing mother to our one day children, as I know you will be THE best father. I cannot wait to have sons just like YOU and look forward to the day of telling our daughter to fairy tales DO come true.
Thank you for loving my family as much as you love me, and including them on our special engagement.
I am your honored to be your “Last Mate,” and will never quit falling in love with you.
I absolutely CANNOT wait to be married to YOU!
With love, hugs, kisses… And the promise of a lifetime together,
Your Rife future Wife!
Now to our “Real Life” Fairytale…
Every girl (whether they admit it or not) dreams of the day their price charming will get down on one knee and ask her to marry him. “What will I be wearing (okay, maybe I only thought of this but…), where will it be, what color will my nails be painted, what will he say, who will be there…” On Saturday, December 10th, everything I ever dreamed my engagement to be, came true and far surpassed anything I could have ever imagined.
Last Friday I was supposed to fly to Myrtle Beach for Shawn’s company Christmas party (he had put it in our shared calendar months ago). I wasn’t really sure what to wear so thankfully I took a few different options. My car had been in Myrtle Beach since Thanksgiving so my mom had to take me to the airport. My flight was at 10 AM and we had about a 2 hour drive, so she picked me up at my apartment around 7:30 AM. She was certainly in no rush but I was because I still had to run to the store to grab my headphones. She finally got to my apartment and must have told me 50 times it was cold, I needed a jacket. It was snowing, so I was already wearing a thick sweater and Sorel fur boots so I was like, uh…no I don’t. No way I can take a suit case, rolling carry-on, my purse, computer bag, make up bag, AND carry a jacket trying to get from one terminal to the other in Atlanta airport, and I was already DYING of heat. So I told her 51 times I was not taking a jacket. Little did I know, I would NOT be flying to Myrtle Beach.
Our flight to New York left at 11 AM so I had a few minutes to take it all in and ask even more questions, starting with “well what are we going to do?!” He knows I LOVE the Lion King play so he got tickets for us to go see the play that night and we’d finish our day off with dinner at Del Friscos. There, I saw a woman wearing a ring that I thought was beautiful, I said “babe, 50 years from now I will take that ring.” He laughed and said “maybe we will have to go shopping for rings and you can show me what you really like.” So this COMPLETELY through me off. We were both pretty tired (as Shawn drove to Tazewell the day before to stay with my parents so my brother could get him to the airport before me) so after the play and dinner we called it a night.
Our horse and buggy finally pulled up and we got on, everything still to me was very normal. The driver wasn’t doing that good of a job giving a tour tho, so I decided to tell Shawn what I knew about places and movies that had been filmed there. We were almost to the FRIENDS fountain when the buggy driver told us this was where the toured ended, that we had to walk up the hill to finish our tour. My first thought was “oh, cool, I haven’t ever been up through here…” I still had NO idea what was about to happen, so we walked on up the hill and came upon “Bow Bridge.” There we walked over and we were over looking the pond, Shawn was holding me (it was a little chilly) and we were just talking about life and how we knew since April 2nd that we wanted to spend the rest of our life with each other. All of the sudden, Shawn said he had a question to ask me, and I immediately stared FREAKING OUT, screaming, “OMG, yes, Yes, YES,” over and over. It was the single happiest moment of my life. He stood up and I couldn’t just quit hugging him! There were so many people on the bridge when we walked over it and after he asked me to marry him, they all stepped to the other side and were cheering and taking our pictures. All of the sudden Shawn goes, “look right over there!” It was a photographer that had been capturing us the ENTIRE time, from the ride to the moment he asked me to marry him. James, of Paparazzi Proposals, was absolutely amazing and so inviting! I thought the pictures stopped there but Shawn had actually booked a Central Park engagement session with him right after. Shawn was even SO amazing that he booked us a session with my favorite photographer, Pasha Belman on Monday but we have had to reschedule due to work conflicts.
After our photos, we went back to the hotel. I just wanted to BE for a moment with my FIANCE and we had to call our parents and siblings! My family knew it was happening around 1:30 PM so when we didn’t call until after 3, they were ALL beginning to sweat. Hearing my dad and Shawn’s dad talking about how proud they were of us was so heartwarming and sweet. That is all a father REALLY wants for their children and I am sure one of the hardest, most rewarding, happiest phone calls a dad will EVER receive.
We spent the rest of Saturday exploring New York and talking about EVERYTHING in the past 8 months, and our future. I asked a million more questions about all of the planning, and the FIBS that Shawn, my brother, and mother has told me over the past couple of months, haha.
Leaving New York, it started snowing so hard, and we were both so sad to leave but couldn’t wait to get “home” and lay with each other. I can remember telling Shawn on the plane, “I hope all of the surprises are over because my heart CANNOT take much more,” haha. Sure enough, when we got back to the airport, I thought JUST my brother was picking us up, but there stood my mom, Brennan, Evan, and Courtney cheering with champagne, welcome home “Mr. and Future Mrs. Becker” signs, balloons, and the most beautiful pink roses I have ever seen.
The ring itself, is the most beautiful thing I have ever seen. It is so feminine, and me, and it literally takes my breath away EVERY time I look down, which I can’t stop doing by the way. When it comes to taking it off, forget it. I even catch myself waking up in the middle of the night to make sure it’s still there. The morning after we got engaged, I would ask him, are you sure I can take a shower with it on, what bout Cetaphil, can I put Cetaphil on my face with it on?!
All our love,
Mr. and the Soon-To-Be Mrs. Becker